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Globally, January is known as the break-up month. It’s also the month when people might rush into relationships for the sake of Valentine’s Day or to ease the winter blues. The pressure of having a fresh start to the new year makes the matter worse for both those in a relationship or single. With that said, we’re sharing our thoughts on this dilemma and things to keep in mind before changing your real-life relationship status.
Is It That Bad, or Is It Winter Blues?
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Winter blues are not just a theme for songs and movies. It is a real problem that hits many people because the deprivation of sunlight often leads to disturbance of the body’s internal clock and feelings of depression without notice. Additionally, external factors like financial instability, new-year workload or little inconveniences in your life seem to hit harder than usual in the winter.
On that account, it is customary to question your relationship and get short-tempered about its problems this season. But you may only want to make a general conclusion about the person or an indefinite decision to break up if you are in your best state. Indeed, some relationships have significant problems and red flags, and January can be a wake-up call in such cases. This tricky situation must be dealt with and evaluated carefully over a long period.
Are You Rushing Into a Relationship for the Right Reasons?
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As mentioned, this tricky month intensifies the urge to be in a relationship to make your winter brighter and your Valentine’s Day memorable. These reasons are never a good sign to start looking for a serious relationship or rushing into one with someone you know isn’t suitable for you. You may not realise all of that if you meet someone new or get closer to someone you already know and are too charmed to think clearly.
Meeting the right person can happen anytime, making you want to rush. And if you are looking for a causal relationship with someone nice, whatever you feel like committing to is never a problem if you know the reasons behind the act. So consider the potential partner objectively while keeping all those mentioned factors in mind before jumping in with both feet!
